It’s written in a gender binary, key elements are missing and I’d like a list that’s organized from zero experience to “extreme,” so I’m making my own and will one day swap that out. It was created by someone in 2012 and it needs to be updated. By knowing each other’s fetishes, desires, and limits, you can better explore your mutual sexuality.”Īlso note, I do find this checklist problematic. Everyone in the relationship should fill it out privately, then compare answers. But there’s more to it than that and if you want to go deeper, keep reading.Īlso please do note, as the website states, “This checklist contains sexual acts, from simple “vanilla” sex to the extremely kinky - touching on things like BDSM, multiple partners, roleplaying scenes, and more. I’d rather not waste anyone’s time and as intimacy, transparency, vulnerability, and connection are important to me, especially as I live a rather taboo life, I like to get right to it! So it is no wonder that I’m often quoting one erotic checklist or another. * Sounding ::: The practice of inserting something into the urethra, predominately on male genitalia.Usually between the 1st and 3rd date with a new lover, I will have brought up the topic of sexuality, erotic art, BDSM, and more. Also includes body-swapping and similar concepts. * Transformation ::: The fantasy or ritual about a character starting off as one person, but ending as another. * Futanari ::: The concept of fully female characters having, often engorged, male genitalia. * Necrophilia ::: The simulated concept of a deceased participant. * Ageplay ::: Acting much younger or older than your actual age to furfil a fantasy scenario. * Incest ::: The simulated fantasy of having relations with siblings, daughter/son to parent or similar structures. * Glory hole ::: The ritual of isolating a person from others, using holes in the wall as the only link between the two. * Magic wands ::: Much like vibrators, a magic wand delivers a strong vibration to a larger area with stronger force. * Vibrators ::: Phallic shaped devices with internal vibration. * Sensory deprivation ::: Covering both ears and eyes completely, often using noise-reduction tech to emphasise the feeling of isolation. A cage, full rope harness, ducttape, restricting the person to absolute minimal movement. * Encasement ::: Full encagement often means full movement restriction. * Stockades ::: Freestanding rigs that restricts the head, and often arms or legs too. * Cufflings ::: Wrapped around wrists and often ancles too, cufflings have little restrictions themselves, but using hooks and rope, they often makes it easier for the master to restrict the wearer spontaniously. Makes the wearer unable to grab or hold objects with their fingers. * Mitts ::: Cloth, leather or metal tools where you place your hands inside, often closed in a fist. * Leash ::: A leash is the rope between the wearer (often tied to a collar) and the master. * Gag ::: A rubber or plastic ornament placed in the mouth of the wearer, making them unable to speak. * Edging ::: The act of bringing the partner very close to orgasm, but giving the genitalia time to cool down, and then repeating the process. * Facials ::: The act of ejaculating directly on the face of the partner. * Handjobs / fingering ::: Stimulating the genitalia of the partner using mainly just hands. * Sleepover ::: Staying with your sexual partner overnight. * Using real names ::: Referring to the partner using real names, instead of pet or nicknames. * Spooning ::: Holding the partner close, often back to chest, and embracing them from behind. Hickies are listed under the light pain category. * Kissing (body) ::: Planting kisses on various bodyparts.
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